There’s something incredibly special about growing old with the person you love by your side. At Delmar Gardens, we understand how meaningful that bond can be—and how important it is to preserve it, even when care needs change. That’s why we’ve created a senior living experience that honors relationships and supports togetherness, especially through thoughtfully designed assisted living for couples.
Whether couples are looking for independent living, assisted support, or more advanced medical care, our senior living communities and nursing homes are designed to keep partners close. In this blog, we’ll explore all the ways we help senior couples stay connected and thrive together throughout every stage of the aging journey.
Why Staying Together Matters
For many seniors, the thought of being separated from a lifelong partner can be more stressful than any health concern. A shared life—built on decades of memories, mutual support, and love—is something worth preserving.
In fact, research has shown that seniors who live with a spouse or partner often experience improved mental health, stronger memory function, and even better physical outcomes. The emotional security of having a loved one nearby can reduce feelings of loneliness and anxiety, lower blood pressure, and promote faster recovery from illness or injury. Simply put, love and connection are powerful forms of care.
We see this every day in our communities. Whether it’s couples holding hands during an afternoon stroll, attending an activity together, or enjoying a quiet meal side by side, their connection brings joy not only to them—but to those around them.
“After 58 years of marriage, we didn’t want to be apart—Delmar Gardens made sure we didn’t have to be. We’re still together, still laughing, and still holding hands every morning.”
– Jim & Eleanor, residents at Delmar Gardens
Couple-Friendly Living Options at Delmar Gardens
At Delmar Gardens, we offer a range of living options designed with senior couples in mind—so they can continue sharing daily life, even as their individual care needs evolve. Our communities feature couple-friendly accommodations such as spacious apartments, shared suites and two bedroom apartments, offering both comfort and privacy.
Our approach to assisted living for couples allows partners to remain together even if their care needs differ. In some cases, one partner may remain independent while the other requires additional support. Couples may live together in assisted living, with only one partner utilizing specific care services, or even reside in different areas of the campus when needed. If one partner is in our skilled nursing facility, visiting is as easy as a golf cart ride across campus.
If a spouse lives off-site, our staff is happy to help coordinate visits so the couple can remain close. We’re flexible in our approach and committed to maintaining independence and connection, however that looks for the couple.
Customized Care That Honors Relationships
Every couple has their own lifestyle—with shared routines and small rituals. We honor these bonds by providing personalized care that not only supports individual health needs but also nurtures the relationship between partners.
What makes Delmar Gardens truly unique is our complete continuum of care. If one partner needs more medical support—such as rehabilitation, memory care, or long-term nursing—our team can develop flexible care plans that allow each individual to receive the right level of support without being separated. In many cases, couples remain in the same building or even on the same floor, with easy access to one another throughout the day.
When couples have different care needs, our team works behind the scenes to align therapy sessions, mealtimes, and daily support in ways that preserve togetherness. Whether it’s helping one partner walk to the other’s room each morning or arranging transportation so they can attend events side by side, we prioritize emotional comfort for couples.
Activities and Amenities for Couples
Our communities host regular social events that couples can enjoy together—like game nights, musical performances, garden strolls, and seasonal celebrations. Many of our recreational and wellness programs are thoughtfully designed for all ability levels, making it easy for partners to participate together.
In addition to group activities, we also provide spaces that foster quiet moments and intimacy. From cozy shared lounges to peaceful patios and walking paths, couples have plenty of opportunities to relax, reflect, and simply enjoy each other’s company.
We also take great pride in helping couples celebrate life’s milestones. Whether it’s a wedding anniversary or birthday, our staff is happy to help plan a special meal, gather family, or mark the moment in a way that feels personal and meaningful.
Supporting Partnerships Through Every Stage
At Delmar Gardens, we believe growing older shouldn’t mean growing apart. Through assisted living for couples, personalized care, and a warm, welcoming community, we help partners stay connected and supported—no matter what stage of the journey they’re in.
We invite you to see firsthand how Delmar Gardens supports couples in every stage of life. Schedule a tour with your loved one to explore our couple-friendly living options, meet our caring staff, and get a feel for the supportive, connected environment we provide. It’s the best way to discover if Delmar Gardens feels like home—for both of you.
Key Takeaways:
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Flexible living arrangements allow couples to stay together, even if one partner needs more care.
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Couple-friendly housing includes shared suites and two-bedroom apartments for comfort and privacy.
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Continuum of care means couples can remain close across independent living, assisted living, and skilled nursing.
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Personalized care plans support both individual health and shared routines to maintain emotional closeness.
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On-campus visits are easy and convenient, even for couples living in different care areas.
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Social events and private spaces are designed to help couples connect and celebrate life together.
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Staff support ensures couples can continue enjoying special milestones and daily moments, together.
